Duncan's Local Dating Service

I am 60 years old. I am 6'1" tall, have blue eyes that sometimes change to green, have shoulder length brown hair graying at the temples. I weight about 240 pounds
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I have three children. A son age 28 who has a Masters degree in music and teaches high school band. A daughter who is married and is expecting my first grandchild in August. She has a Master degree in Physicians Associate and works for a medical firm in Edmond. She and her husband live in Norman. I have another daughter, age 17, who will be entering the 11th grade of high school. At this point in her life, she wants to be a music therapist. My other one wanted to be a shark Biologist when she entered collage. So who knows what is going to happen with the other daughter.

I have a Associate Degree in Police Science and a Bachelor Degree in Elementary Education. I work as a security supervisor on the graveyard shift at a small casino. I spent 10 years in the Marines and served in Viet Nam. I contacted type II diabetes from agent orange while serving in Nam.

I consider myself a Christian, but I do not believe that Christianly is the only right religion in the world. I believed that God has opened may doors to heaven. I believe that there is good and bad in all religions and that it is up to each of us to choose the good and reject the bad. I believe that no two people are alike. That all people have their own likes and dislikes. Have there own concept of what is beautiful and what turns them on. Some people are turned on by physical beauty and others by spiritual beauty. People spend a lot of time searching for who they really are. Some never find it. Others find it and reject it because it does not fit into what society thinks is the norm. A few accept what they are.

I like to go camping, but donâ??t get to go often. I donâ??t like to hunt. I am not much for killing things that I donâ??t need to. I do like fish, not to catch but to eat. I can get most of what I need to eat at the store. I do not hold any thing against people that like to hunt and fish, it just not my thing. If you like to fish, I will be happy to sit on the banks with you and talk. If I was to hunt, it would be with a camera, not a gun. I like to go to Red Hawk baseball games when I can. I donâ??t smoke or drink. I at one time smoked three packs a day, so I know how hard it is to quite. I mind people who smoke or drink, as long as it is done in moderation. If you do feel like getting snocked, I will get you home safely.

well where do I start, I work for a surveying company. I am always going out of town, but i always try to make time for my friends or anybody that wants to do something with me. Work takes up a lot of my time so its a pain to meet new people that are interesting. when i do get free time hiking is something i enjoy doing. I also bought a house/apartments recently. I live in one apartment and rent the other. Its also keeps me occupide.

Single as the day is long as of this writing and I work alot. Not so much that I dont have free time really, I guess its more of a perception thing. It seems like I always work, but I have enough time to fill this out right?

Im always up to meet someone new though, but I cant predict outcomes. I do whatever it takes when ther is a problem to get it taken care of. I give what I have and hope that it will come back and the cycle can begin anew.

Have your friends ever told you about this guy they met through a friend that would be perfect for you? He is funny, friendly and he can carry on an intelligent conversation on many different subjects? Well, thats me and I hear about you all the time. The woman who is friendly, smart, and needs to find a good man like me. A few words to describe me are caring, honest, loving, affectionate, passionate, well-mannered, funny and optimistic.
I do my best to always be in a good mood and be friendly to everone I come in contact with. I am the nice guy you would want your family and friends to meet.
I have a very close and loving relationship with my family. I was raised in a wonderful Christian home and I carry those values with me today. I am a gentleman but I do have a little bit of badboy inside which is reserved for the one woman who catches my heart. "It takes a beautiful woman to catch my attention, It takes a beautiful soul to catch my heart".

I'm a retired banker of some 30+ years of service to that industry. I lost my lovely wife to cancer in 1996, and have been searching for the last love of my life every since then. My journey has taken me through the shark infested waters of several lengthy, yet unsatisfying relationships, and I'm still hoping for that "special" woman to come along and sweep me off my feet. I've been retired for nearly six years now, and love every moment of it. The other special people in my life are my children, of which there are three, and my grandchildren numbering seven. Sadly, all live at great distance from me, so I rarely see them (all) more than once a year. Getting back to myself, I'm a very clean, well dressed, busy gentleman, with many activities (more on that below). I have a nice home that I'm currently remodeling, a large motor home, that I enjoy my travels in, and a motorcycle that is my passion.

Well im a pretty simple guy i guess. easy to get along with, hard working, honest and have a friendly personality, make friends wherever i go.

Hi i am 26 years old i am in the transportation industry and it pays well but there is some off sides of it i live a very busy lifestyle i love to make plans but in the field of work i am in i currently have to make plans to be broken down sound to good but theres always time to make it up in better ways i been in this field for about 2 years now and i love my job i love the outdoors and want to do stuff that i haven't done or haven't done in awhile but wish not to do it by myself i would like to go horse back riding ( which will be interesting since i never done before ) i enjoy going camping fishing and hiking i like to go out on the town and see whats going on here in oklahoma city but then again i like to hang out around the house as well because i don't get to spend much time at the house i am looking for someone that will work with my busy style its not as bad as it looks just got to get thur the first few months and it gets easier and you find ways to make it better

I'm here looking for a FEMALE friend, my husband and I moved here to Duncan, OK from Sac, Ca and dont know really anybody but family so if you would like to find out more you know what to do HOLLA!!!!!

I'm kinda hard to read at first. it seems I piss a lot of people off with that first impression thing; however, I love to joke and hang with friends and have a general grand ole time. And if people can't see that they are not for me!

I am very protective of those around me, so don't mess with my friends! Or you'll mess with me.

I am stupid when it comes to anything fast or dangerous that means i have no limits...just ask around.....If it can be done I've done it or will do it!

Let's Have fun..
I am a technically minded engineer who loves racing and doing just about anything at least once. I graduated from Oklahoma State with a Bio-Mechanical engineering degree and now i'm living in Duncan america. Give me a chance you never know what you might find, behind these blue eyes.

Can't get a pic on yet but working on it but I have blu eyes brown hair and the rest is perrtyaverage
I'm a workaholic. My job has me travel a lot and all my home time is spent with
my kids u r my bigest pride. I don't do drama at all. I belive in honesty to a fault trust
Indepandence and realibality. I also don't do jelousey. I'm not great at this describing
me stuff so I'm u wana talk and know some thin jus hit me up and ask. No questions
are taboo for me. I'm trying this because I'm wondering if its to try again after 4 yeras

My name is jenni i have a outgoing personality, i like to make my friends laugh... i'm 21 I have blonde hair but dye it often.. I have a pitbull named abby... No kids am going to college full time studying crimal justice... Want to work in the police force... Am outside all the time when its warm... would like to go skydiving one day.... I would like to learn how to shoot a shotgun one day... i am looking for a guy that is honesty, caring, and loyal.... and who likes to cuddle...

im an honest person with an outgoing personality... i like doing outdoors stuff but am the type that would like to stay at home n cuddle n watch a movie....

I am 24, married and my husband is also 24. We have been married 3 years. we are looking for another couple or just another girl. We enjoy the outdoors.hunting, fishing, swimming, and anything else fun.

I'm a divorced father of 3 who really hates being single and lonely. I'm looking for someone to spend time with, be it just hanging out or something a lot more serious. Either is great.

Hey! My name is Jennifer, I am 29 yro and I have a 10 yro son. He is very bright, I am extremely proud and hoping he attends MIT. We are from Lubbock, Tx; moved to Duncan several years ago. I spend most of my time with my family; mother and son and animals. I love animals; just being around them makes me feel good.

Well, let's see.... I'm quiet in general, unless you get me started and then I tend to liven up. I like to read, dance, and just hang out. I'm limited in what I'm willing to try in the food area. Lol. If it doesn't look good to me, I'm generally not gonna eat it. I love movies, all kinds. I range from The Crow to Knocked Up to The Reaping. I also like almost all music genres. Mostly listen to R&B, Rock, Alternative, and Country. I hate troublemakers, and people that always have drama. I've been there done that waaay too often in the past. Oh, and if you smoke weed often I'd prefer not to know you. Let's see more to think of....I do arts and crafts when I can think to do them. I love photography and art. I do a bit of singing although you will probably never hear me. I don't sing or dance in front of people much anymore. I do not do one-night stands, screw buddies, nor am I a swinger. Notice the sexual encounters missing from my profile? I can be very difficult to understand, but that's what people like about me. You might have to wait a bit for me to answer you back so be patient. I lost my computer so I have to go to someones house right now to check my mail. And I've had lots of new drama lately so long story short if you have anger issues, don't bother talking to me. :)

I"ve spent the last 8 yrs working overnights ,now I want my life back.I always have a plan implenting it seems kinda hard at times.I spend most of my computer time on my space if you want to check my profile my display name is spiderwesley

Hi, thanks for reading my profile.

You'll learn more about me later but the chip off the iceburg is that I drive truck for work and for fun drive my boat.

My self-summary would be, I think, a mix of whatever's typed below this section, but I guess I could write something here...

I don't do religion. Aside from study them, that is. I used to be a Baptist, but then curiosity led me to grow a brain. However, whatever religion you have is.. well, yours. As long as you keep it to yourself, I'm cool with that.

I don't do drugs, I won't do drugs, and I won't be around drugs. I like clarity. I like not having brain damage (though I'm sure some would debate this point :) ).

I like to drive. (However, after hitting a deer and a cow, my car doesn't always like me to.)

I spend most of my time on the interweb, playing my guitar (not so well), learning something new, or chilling with my friends/family. I really should make some time to start reading again, but I'm gonna have to start exercising hardcore soon, so that's probably not gonna happen.

I've been told that I'm a nerd and a geek, so if that bothers you then thanks for your time.

I don't know what else I could put here, so if you really wanna know something, message me. My psychic prowess only goes as far as my skull.

I am...Me. I'm a left handed girl living in a very right handed world. Ever try using scissors made for the other hand? It hurts! I promise. I love life (most days). I'm not much into politics and all that. I am extremely opinionated however. I'm agnostic, no, not atheist, no I don't worship the devil. I'm agnostic, look it up. I love music, drawing, writing, learning new things. I love the smell of rain and lavender. I believe in karma. Yes my name is Sarah Lee...and no... I can't cook at all (I was cursed by the name, I'm almost positive). I DO love video games. I looove Halo (total geek), Left 4 Dead, Resident Evil, Fable, pretty much all RPG's and most FPS's; currently loving Dragon Age: Origins. I love WoW also and The Sims too.

Hello, my name is ethan it's nice to hopefully get to where i can meet some new people around my aera make some new friends mabye even dateing i'm good at fixing computers being creative in my own way i'm good with cars skateing and i'm always nice to be i do my best to be a good friend to be a nice guy if you need help ill do my best to neaver let you down just ask and ill do my best :D

id like to settle down with a girl someday and start a small family

I like to be out doors alot it's better then being cooped up in this house all day with no one to talk to gets pretty sad sometimes

I'm bored and this seemed like a really good idea to kill time in between loading screens, cups of coffee, or anything.

I don't have a picture up and I don't intend to put one up! So there.

If you would like to chat, please leave a message. If you read this you must be as bored as I was. Hi!

Hi My name is Robert, I live in Comanche, OK. I'm a down home country boy. I'm employed at Halliburton MFG. I love baseball and football.

love riding horses and spending time with family.just a down to earth country girl.

Well i'm a happy go lucky guy who loves god and his family. I have two children one whos is 4 yrs old and the other which is 8 almost 9 mths old. I love them both very very much. S o yeah thats me if you have any questions or would like to just chat pls don't hesitate to hit me up. Hope to hear from you soon.

My name is Charlie. I'm 22 years old, and just moved to Oklahoma after graduating from USMA in New York. I'm looking to meet some new people to have a good time with around here! I'm a very outgoing person and love to go out and try new things. Don't be shy!!!

I am a down-home, simple, what-you-see is what-you-get kind of girl. I would love to travel, swimming, the lake, outdoors and sports. OU Sooners....bleed crimson and white. lol BEING PAMPERED & LOVED...
I like to have fun and love to go places as well as dining, cuddling and watch movies. I am a retired hairstylist. I love people. I am very touchee-feeley and love to kiss. Family is important. I have a 26yr daughter and 23yr son. I am a grandma to 3 boys and 1 girl all under the age of 6yr.

I am a divorced mom raising two wonderful sons, ages 16 and 12. I have been divorced about a year and a half and am interested in finding a real relationship. I guess I am just looking for someone real that wants a relationship also, and feels like the time and effort spent building one is worth it.

I have a really good job that I absolutely love. I would like to find a man that works hard but also knows how to play hard. I am not looking for anyone to support me and I don't want anyone I have to support financially either.

I know there has to be a little bit of a physical attraction but looks aren't everything to me. A good personality and a sense of humor are wonderful.

I really like tattoos. Okay, this might sound a little random but I really do like them. I have two myself and have plans for at least 2 more. If you have them that is great but if you don't that is ok too. Doesn't mean that we can't talk. I like men without em too... ;)

Well let's see. I am 19 and grew up out in the middle of nowhere. I work for Turner Falls Park I love it. I am a out doorsman. I love to go out and ride four wheelers hunt work on the farm and hang out with my grandpa. I love being around people. I love to talk. I wouldn't call myself the life of the party but I like to have fun. I don't hardly ever party and I don't do any drugs. I do go to church. With the hours I work I don't have much time for anything but I find time. I love being around kid and helping out the elderly wen ever I can. If you have any questions just hit me up.

Hi My name is Eric. I Live in okla I am 37 years old. I was married for 14 yrs and recently divorced.

Does anyone even care what this says? Probably not so IF the rest of my profile peaks your interest send me a message, if you are too shy for that wink at me and I will get back to you! Just keep in mind that I do know the muffin man, so beware!!!

Let us try a little truth. Went to college, but flunked out. Not because I am dumb, instead I found a bottle and crawled inside. At 20 I moved home to help my grandmother after she was diagnosed with cancer. She lived about a year at which time my dad went blind. I spent the next ten years taking care of him, until he had to go to a nursing home. So, I really lost my twenties. LOst my dad Janurary 07, moved my mom home with me and my brother just a few months later, lost little brother october 08. All of this has forged the man I am, furiosly loyal, independent,strong willed.

Well, I am a Sales & Service Specialist and just recently, that has allowed me to work from home.  I am loving it!  I have a beautiful 19 year old daughter that does not live with me ...but is very much my pride and job.  Some day, I would love to have another cause I love children and enjoy raising them.  I like dinning out (chinese is one of my favorite foods...and my my neighbors barbqueing - it is sooo mouth watering..just ask any of my neighbors, he tends to cook for a few of the neighbors on my end of the apt. complex.), I also like a man who can cook (it helps knowing they can feed themselves when I am working - lol...or if i am not feeling good, they can take care of the household), wonderful if they clean too...am i asking for a miracle on the cleaning...lol.  I like just about anything really, going to the movies or staying home and watching them, rollerskating or iceskating (if you want a good laugh, it's been a few years), fishing, camping, swimming and the like.  I love nature. Hope to hear from you.  Jackie

Well I'm a down to earth Oklahoma girl. I love my family and friends. My daughter is the bright star in a dull exsistence. I'm sweet and friendly but I do have a wilder side. Love music, keeps me sane. I honestly dont try to talk about myself, because I dont know what to say. I think Im a little boring, but my friends say that im far from it. I'll let you decide... :)

I like nature , reading , shiny things,
painting , cooking and eating,
drawing ,road trips, armchair psychotherapy, backseat necking, movies,
shooting,
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I'm going to be straight up about everything on here, it may not be the best idea but at least i'm honest'mO'm a fun loving 25 year old guy who likes to enjoy as much out of life as possible. I am a fun lovin type of guy, anything to do with a car seems cool to me, but it doesn't end there. I also like to go camping, fishing, swimming, out to the movies, basically you name it, i might do it. I don't like drama around me at all. Some of my friends know things, others have an idea. i'm not perfect but i do my best.

"I'm not perfect, nor do I intend to be. It's not fun being perfect, so I'm just going to be me."

I am a beautiful person on the inside, you couldnt find a more caring, giving, compassionate women that puts all others need before my own. I am a mother of four wonderful kids that are my world. I own a donut shop and have learned to take care of myself in the 4years that I have been divorced. I work hard to provide for my family. I believe everyone makes mistakes and deserves a second chance to make themselves a better person. I am looking for my second chance to find true love and happiness.

I love to hang out with my friends and have fun! I have 3 young sisters that can be very entertaining and keep me going! I'm a really shy person unless I know you, but once I get to know you I talk all the time! I'm super ticklish! I love the summer and fall! I love to take picture.I love to dance and sing even though I can't! I HATE beening lied 2! I am a christian. I don't regret anything that once made me smile! I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason so i live life to the fullest and just enjoying every min. of it...I love to ride four wheeler, I am usually up for anything as long as it consist of having fun! I Love Red dirt music... I will be starting cosmetology School in Jan or Feb. just depending... Well if you would like to know anything else just ask.

I am a single male in search of a good woman, I have been single for a while and I am ready to get back into the dating world again. I am a honest person I do not do drugs and go out to the clubs. I feel that to make someone else happy you first must be happy with yourself. I have taken the time to find out who I am. I enjoy being outside the sun on my face and the wind in my hair. I am a dog person, I am clean cut, house broken and not looking for someone to take care of me. I want my mate to walk beside me not infront or behind but hand in hand. I am not into drama or head games, I am pretty down to earth, a simple person and enjoy the simple things in life, and what you see is what you get. It isn't about what is on the outside but what is on the inside. Physical attraction does play a small part of the chemistry between two people it isn't the total package. Sex is the same way if you don't have something else in common what do you do for the other twenty three hours in a day. I have old fashioned values and would like to find someone with the same ideas and beliefs. To make a relationship work it does take two working together. You only get back what your willing to put in, I do all the give and you do all the take won't sustain a relationship for long. I am not perfect and I'm not looking for perfection. I am missing my best friend and someone to share the little things in life with. We are all here looking for the same thing. Some of us will find what we are searching forand some of us wont. If it is meant for me to be single so be it. I can accept that, but if I am to spend it with that someone special I should make an attempt to find her that is why I am here. So if you feel I am the right one for you. Then make an attempt to find me also because I am looking for you. Thank you and I do hope your dreams do come true.......

Let's see I am originally from Queens, NY move here in 92 then to Texas then back here in 97. I work with the Army as a civilian. I have one child she is 13 years old. I enjoy going to Bricktown, me and my daughter go there and get a hotel and just do what we want to do for the weekend to enjoy ourselves. I like playing the Playstation or the Wii with my daughter. Its funny to see us play Guitar Hero.

My ALL time favorite is UFC just can't get enough, would love to see it live one day. I don't mind getting dirt under my nails or painting them. I love quiet nights to cuddle on the couch with a movie or just to talk. I am easygoing, love to laugh, shy at first then I will warm up.

I would love to find someone who likes to go on vacations and see what there is to see and explore the big open world together, we could find something around the corner and make that fun. Someone that feels the way I do about a relastionship and that is to have comunication and respect to go both ways. I am spontaneous and can be ready in 5 minutes if you need me to be. If you like we can stay at home and cuddle or find a project to do together. I don't think we have to have the same interest but some would be nice. I would love to find someone that when I look into his eyes and know that he loves me without saying a word. Could this be you?

I'm 20 years old.. I work for the city of lawton as a emergency 911 dispatcher. I was a MA in the navy, but am now in the reserves, I love my friends & family, and im a country girl at heart. I like to ride horses and shoot guns. I wear boots with my jeans..!! I also like to enjoy a glass of frutezia with my friend jennifer. I am very outgoing. I will be a police officer. It is what i have always wanted to do. My father was and he retired.

Hi my name is Seth i grew up in york, pa from there i moved to savannah, ga i loved it there i was 10 mins from the beach and 10 mins from downtown. i now live in lawton, ok and am trying to meet new people and hopefully that special someone

I'm a real laid back person. Like to be outside riding horses/ fourwheelers and driving. Family and friends are the most important things in my life.

I am a man, about 5ft 9in tall, weight 195, with thinning, graying blond hair. I've had a successful career with the Army and maintain both professional and personal ties with many there. I enjoy golf, racing, walking and the company of plesant people.

Names Brittany, I'm 5'9, i like weed.. alot! lol. Uhm... yea, I'm fun =D i like Bud Light and Jager is one of my favvsss!! I'm almostttt 21 hehe. I'm from Flint Michigan but i live in lame ass Oklahoma. I fucking lovee animals.. like woah animal nerd =P My sister is my bestest friend fucking EVER! I listen to rock, rap, hip hop,a lil techno, and r&b. Country is lameO and i like very few country songs. Best of all ... i'm VERY gay lol no guys what so ever.. gross. Well yea, .. idk what else to say cuz im a stoner lmao so... Message me i like to talk =) <33

I love singing and listening to most all kinds of music.
I enjoy Family, children, animals and nature, quiet times and most people.
I work hard at my job and like to enjoy my time away from it and would really love someone to share that time with me.

I am In the Army and have a relaxed attitude, but am not lazy in the least. I love to have things I can put time into and make better, myself included. I attend Kaplan University and am currently working on my business administration degree. I also keep myself in shape by running and lifting weights. I'm very open minded, a little sarcastic, and honest possibly too honest. I love to travel. The Army has been sending me to different states to help other units train for a couple weeks at a time here and there. I like to see new sites and am always up for learning something new. When its warm out I love to be outdoors. I love the water and laying out on the beach. I like to go on walks, shoot some hoops or go camping.

Me? Well, I'm easy going anything sounds like a plan if its not too crazy. I enjoy doing things that are random and I'm easily entertained. Don't believe me? Then ball up a piece of paper and throw it in my direction. I'll be busy with it for a good hour unless something else comes along. I enjoy my junk food! And I try my hardest to get along with everyone but some people are a lost cause.

I am shy at first,but will warm up after a few minute. I am a collage student,and I work full time.I am a grandmother of 5 and a mother of three sons.
I dont play games,and dont have or want drama in my life.I am loving, caring and trustworthy person,I love animals and children.
I am also romantic,affectionate and I love to hug and hold hands with the one I care about.And like to walk in the parks and movies even if it at home. Or just spend time with the man of my dreams,even if it just sitting at home looking at each other..

Hello all! I am a 23 year old female just looking for some new friends and new experiences. I really dont know what to say about myself, except that I am extremely random. I like to laugh and have fun. theres really nothing more that I need to say, if there's something that you want to know, just ask me.

I'm Aaron.
Sometimes I do things that might be labeled as interesting.
I do things like listen to jazz, though most don't find that interesting.
I also listen to folk, indie, and punk (along with other things), and this is deemed slightly more socially acceptable and therefore interesting.
I go on walks in the woods and in the mountains.
I work my ass off from 9pm to 6:30am almost every night.
Fortunately that's about to slow down a little.
I go to movies and quietly make fun of them with my friends. Unless it actually ends up being worth the nine dollar ticket.
I play saxophone. I used to do it for crowds, by my jazz combo disbanded. Now I play in my garage, because the acoustics are amazing.
I draw pictures. Once upon a time one got turned into a book cover.
I write pretty words that aren't angsty, but still can convey anger.
I just can't decide what art I'd rather pursue more, so I'll just pretend to be a Renaissance man.

Wow is this real. I think so. Im finally back to the gym again 2 times a day. Almost feel like I am physically 18 again. Hiking, working out, and basically just having some good fun are just a few of a long list of activities I like to participate in. I am a non smoker now since Oct of 2004 and do not miss it... Mind over Marlboro is the key. Why did I ever start such a nasty thing? My social scene consists of my dog and I. Pretty much have cut out all the riff raff and those who create drama to focus on what I need to do. Would be nice to find someone to spend some time with but not holding my breath. Is there anyone that dosnt smoke or do drugs out there? Anyways, one never knows what can happen so hit me up if you like. Words that would describe me are social, outgoing, worry free, optimistic, upbeat, tough, likes large parties, makes friends easily, rarely irritated, open, enjoys leadership, trusting, dominant, thrill seeker, strong, does not like to be alone, assertive, mind over heart, confident, controlling, feels desirable, likes the spotlight, loves food, social chameleon, hard working, concerned about others.

I divorced about a year ago. I have two older children. They live with me. I am to the point that I am ready to start dating.I have a wide variety of interests.I can find enjoyment in most things.I would only be interested conversing with people who are looking to date.You can get a good feel whether their is possibilities when you meet a person.( MY typing skills aren't very good either)!

im 23 laid back country boy that jus got 2 oklahoma and would like 2 find somebody 2 have fun with im easy 2 get along with can make tha best out of ne situation life throws at me if u wanna know ne thing else jus ask

im your basic country boy and im pretty layed back guy im very sarcastic. i don't deal with drama. im not the emotional type. i like to travel alot im always just grabbing my shit and jumping in my truck and goin on a little vacation mostly because im not some one to make plans i like to be spontaneous life is no fun unless you go out and explore the world. ummm i like country music and classic rock 70's and 80's i do not like rap or tecno music im basically im just your basic guy i love my truck and my dog and if you wanna know any thing else just ask.

Hi, my name is J.r., I am 23 years old and Iâ??m a student. I am about to graduate with a degree in Chemistry and then go to graduate school to get a PhD. I really enjoy randomly driving around or taking spontaneous roadtrips. I enjoy Sailing, and hiking, and just hanging out.

From My Facebook Profile: well me what can i say im a goof ball mostly sometimes dark very passionate and emotional extremly sensitive and very caring love is my gift to share with anyone that croses my path in life I like movies they are a great love of mine art ,writing ,painting i love learning and new experiances .

i hate writing these things...

So, my names Paul.
I just moved to gay hell (a.k.a. lawton, Ok) from miami.
I live with my lesbian/stripper best-friend of 16 years, and its always a party!

My name is Jeff.Im 21 years old. I was born in GA and ive been in OK for the past ten years. I graduated from MacArthur Highschool and then went to Cameron Univrsity for a year. Trying to go back. I love to play sports and dance. I absolutely love to cook. Just trying new things in the kitchen is awesome. I work at a prison in Lawton, OK and love it. I would really like to become a DEA(Drug Enforcement Agency) agent or I really would like to also get in the tattoo game. Im a looking for that special girl to start my life with so ladies message me.....

I know I have something to say... What was it again???

Oh yeah... I am a pretty nice guy, though I am passionately into BDSM. I am a " life-styler ", it's not just a weekend thing for me. I am quirky and tend to make people laugh, but am very blunt. I prefer to try and keep a very glass-is-half-full outlook. I want to experience life in all it's variety (whatever that may be), with whomever may happen to stumble across my path.

I am huge fan of anime, fast cars, Oklahoma University, and motorcycles.

I know that there is an over abundance of very common, non-descriptive profiles out there. I am going to make an attempt to piece together something better for all to read. I will tell you who I think I am, what I am looking for, and where I come from. I am not promising that it will have all the information in it though. I am not trying to write an autobiography, nor am I trying to bore you either. Yes it will probably be a bit bland but it will be informative and first and foremost honest. That I can promise. Well I hope you enjoy. So let me begin.

Who am I? That is what everyone wants to know. Quite simply I am a man, though not normal and quite twisted, nothing more nothing less. I am fallible. I am not perfect indeed I am far from perfect. I have done things I am not proud of and things that should never be asked of someone. I tell you these things to inform not to scare. I am a sadist. I am spiritual but refuse to call it more than that. I am not political, though the issues are important. I think of myself as a romantic. I try to be kind and respectful to everyone. Sometimes I have a temper and I lash out at the ones I care for. I am intelligent and learned, though I always seek out new knowledge. I love to laugh and consider myself funny at times. I have wants, needs, plans, and dreams.

What do I want? Above all else honesty. I hold nothing higher. I seek intelligence, independence, confidence, character, and kindness. I donâ??t want a mooch. I want someone who can be my equal but chooses not to be. Someone who is willing to work hard and make sacrifices because she understands that I am doing the same. Physical, mental, emotional (yes I have emotions and I do cry), and moral support. Someone who understands that we are more student than teacher no matter our station in life. Someone not afraid to love, to learn, and to try new things. I someone who can be just as comfortable in front of my parents as they are during sessions. I want someone who will put up with me and help me be a better person, though I am not looking to be overhauled. I donâ??t believe that age (within reason) or beauty are overly important, though I have preferences. I do believe that a healthy weight is important but I do over look someone based on that. I always seek friendship first.

Where do I come from? To tell this, I have to give you some history. I was adopted at the age of three, along with two others, to a military couple, dad an officer and mom a school teacher. My new parents were likable and caring enough. They provided everything we needed and some things we didnâ??t. They were strict and understanding, though mom less understanding. While under their roof, we moved from Oklahoma to England to Texas to Germany then back to Oklahoma. I did all four years of high school in a little podunk town named Elgin. I then proceeded to join the Army National Guard while attempting college. I then went full time Navy and was deployed in response to 9-11. When our tour was over, I was stationed in Norfolk, VA. Once released from the military, I hoped around from place to place and from job to job. I have finally decided on a career and I am enjoying every minute I get to do it as well. I look forward to the future rather than dreading it.

Even after all of this you still want to write me, feel free to do so. Though my job requires me to work with computers, I donâ??t check my email every day. If you do write, I can promise that I will write back (even to say â??no thanksâ??). Feel free to ask questions of me. I will do my best to answer them. Well I thank you all for taking the time to read that and I hope to hear from you soon. Take care.

Ok, I think that is enough for now...